But it turns out the guy with his ass hanging out lived next door to one of my co-workers. That co-worker saw us in Albertsons (I didn't her) She somehow peeked into the den of my friends house where we were sitting having a drink (still I didn't her). She and this guy were kind of really friendly neighbors. When she questioned him about my being there he told her everything how hairs were on my crotch you name it she had every detail of the night I had sex with the guy and I still had no clue, until she came to work and OUTED ME ! By the end of the day I was getting these really strange looks from everybody and several people told me what she was telling. Keep in mind I worked in a corporate office and had a reputation of being very professional, the best dressed and my sexuality was a mystery to everyone as they never saw me with anyone. I made it a rule to not socialize with co-workers. I wouldn't even go to any company functions or parties I like my privacy. After days of hearing about my thighs and bubble butt, and hairy ass, I confronted her, she went to. and filed a formal complaint.. questioned me and I admitted to confronting this female who aired my dirty laundry in the executive conference room.. refused to listen to anything I had to say, wouldn't even question the female who told about 16 people what she knew about me. A couple of these people actually went to. and voiced their opinion about the female sticking her nose into my personal life and bringing it to the workplace. Nothing was ever said to the female. The only thing. said was that I caused a verbal altercation with a co-worker on the basis of rumor, hearsay, and gossip. I could the paperwork on the desk, pink copy for me, it was just a written warning but I refused to sign it, went back to my office collected my personal affects, threw it all in the car and left.
I came out to my wife after she found my magazines. She wasn't freaked. In fact she watch my porn with me while she reads her porn. Even tho I'm out to her I still find it hard to talk to her about my desires. I try to make sure our sex life is exciting for her while entertaining my fantasies. It's been about 30 years since she found out and I don't anything changing now. We're not interested in opening our relationship, I have so far been able to be satisfied with my porn. So I guess I'll just keep watching my porn and satisfying her, too. People say they wish their marriage could be like ours! (if they only knew!) We do have a really loving relationship. And I can't imagine my life without her. I'd like to stay in touch thru if you would care to.