First time posting. Works in Chicopee
I cannot believe I am doing this, but I have just settled into my new position at work, and find that the bar scene is not my thing anymore when it comes to meeting someone to date. I rarely go to bars anymore, so finding someone in a place I rarely go, does not make sense to me.
So here I am. My circle of friends is just that. . . "friends", so I am putting myself out here online, to see if I can find someone who will fit me well, have the same core values, live healthy and active with me, and who values intimacy, honesty, strength, and understands what it means to be in a solid, long-term relationship.
I am a non-smoker, no diseases, down-to-earth, enjoy the simple things in life, well mannered, well educated, strong physiy, emotionally stable, and secure.
No one has ever run screaming when they first meet me, and I am comfortable in a pair of shorts, a pair of jeans, with power tools, or in the suits I wear 5 days a week.
I am not perfect, I need to drop 10-15 lbs, I am 5' 10" tall, and I am very honest. There is no guessing with me, I do not play games, and I am romantic and chivalrous.
All I ask it that you are over your ex, intelligent, in decent shape, non-smoker, understand that it takes effort in a relationship, and not afraid of intimacy or being outdoors.
I will email you a picture of myself, and I would appreciate it if you would send one of yourself within the first few emails. Yes, "looks" play a part in this, but are not the most important part.
If you have read this far and still not put-off, then message me on here, include your favorite meal in the subject line of your reply (sorry. . . but there are many scammers julian NC wife swapping on here, so I was told to include this), and tell me about your ideal relationship.