I ask because my husband's family has a bunch of people who think they always have something wrong with them or they make a mountain out of a molehill. We both have a problem believing that something is actually wrong with them when it actually is because of how much they complain about mysterious problems that are brought up for attention. We both have a walk it off attitude. Our likes to try and be dramatic which makes it hard to tell when something is really wrong. He trips coming up the stairs, the world is ending. He flies off of the trampoline, no issue. He walks into a chair, the world is ending. He cracks his head on the corner of a table and has a huge bruise, no issue. If something is really wrong, then you complain. don't whine about little things. Do you have a lot of little complaints? Are these small discomforts that don't make a difference in how you function, yet you feel the need to voice them? If so, quit. Speak up when something is really wrong. I have a knee that is shot. It hurts everyday and there is nothing I can do about it right now. I only mention it on days when it is really bad. Of course, he can probably tell by how I walk or my lack of movement. It takes two people for things to change. From what you say, he sounds like an asshat. However, it seems lacking. What part do you play in it? Do you just let him talk down to you or do you stand up for yourself? If you let him walk all over you, it makes you part of the problem. When he is full of shit, let him know. My husband wanted to tell me that our had not sprained his ankle when he had. Been there, done that. I know how to tell if an ankle is sprained. He thought a sprained ankle required being in a hospital and that the kid wouldn't be able to walk at all. Obviously he was wrong and I told him so. don't think I am an idiot when you have no idea. Call him out on his bullshit when he pulls it. Have you told him that you think he is behaving like a ass? He might not know unless you tell him. Some people are dense like that.
have nothing better to do than dig that far back to TRY and find dirt on someone. Gawd what a horrible life you must have , but I understand your anger and frustration. Best of luck to you. Remember it is what is on the inside that counts, so don't let others get you down over your looks, those you cannot change, but you can change what is on the inside dear. MMMkay?
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